big_tooth

華美子, please don't assume other people don't understand.  Many of us here are married, with kids, and understand the issues with living with in-laws.  

You will very unlikely to find a mother in law that will apologize when she mess up your cookwares.  And really, is that such a big deal?  Have you think about that maybe your mother in law is unhappy and thinking that she cooks and cleans for you and all you guys did was complain about how she messes up your cookware and floor?

"比佢餵ＢＢ？梗係唔得啦"....this to me sound very disrespectful.  She raised your husband for crying out loud.  The older generation might not know how things should be done now a days, but don't for a second believe they do not know how to feed and raise kids.

「我聽日想食麵，因為想食Ｄ濕野，我會自己煮啦。」.....The problem here is that you said you will cook yourself.  This clearly telling her that her cooking sucks.  This is not good even if said in a nice tone of voice.  

Looking at your complaints here, and really, those are such minor problems.  I think it is fine to not like it, but to announce to the whole internet world that the in-law is crazy is just plain wrong.