Ultraman

So generally, people who are still thinking about the ex are currently single, or have a current bf/gf but just feel like loving the ex more?

Ultraman

愛...又可以怎樣....?

每次見佢facebook update同女朋友影既相我都好心痛....

試過用盡辦法忘記佢但都唔成功, 個心不其然諗起佢.....
Anonymous 發表於 2009-6-14 23:26

He has already moving on for his new life, so as you can move on too. You may delete his facebook account (maybe you don't want to), try not to know his recent activities.

Ultraman

愛﹐太沉重了。。。想念倒是有的
Littleprince 發表於 2009-6-15 07:54

Oops..... I thought you've married wor?!

Ultraman

so? cannot 想念 somebody after married???
Littleprince 發表於 2009-6-15 11:37

Tell your husband that you still miss and always think of your ex-bf, see what he would say.

Ultraman

you need to study some more Chinese....
Littleprince 發表於 2009-6-15 12:00

想念:
1.to cherish the memory of; to miss the presence of

想:
1.to think; to think about; to think of; to think over
2.to suppose; to reckon
3.would like to
4.to remember with longing

I used both "miss" and "think of" for whichever case your situation is already. Maybe it's you who used the wrong Chinese phrase in the first place.

Ultraman

果個超人先生好明顯有啲大男人主意。im not saying that he is bad. without people like him. there will never be families and structure. 一夫一妻制嘛。法律係咁寫嘅。你仲掛住以前果個，留喺我身邊托牙。but t ...
playingtoy 發表於 2009-6-15 15:38

Before you made this comment, maybe I should declare my thought applies to both genders.
Maybe, you are a man/woman who "allows" your wife/husband misses and thinks of other guys/gals and feel no problem. I have absolutely no bias on either gender at all, just according to my own experience and from many of male and female friends I know, they won't be happy with that.

Ultraman

30# somewheretintime & 32# playingtoy
I know there are people who are still missing their ex(es), of course I'm not surprised with that. My thought is, if this "hidden passion" (rather to say it's "hidden love") is deep inside you (a general you), would you be frank to tell your other half about that? If so, and your other half accepts and feel no problem, that's not an issue at all. But if you dare not to tell so, that means you know yourself is doing something wrong inside, just you don't want to admit and face.

Ultraman

你認罪把啦... 反抗Ultraman係唔會有好結果的...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-6-15 22:43

Oh come on! Do I appear that evil?
Well, maybe people think I'm "scary" cuz my points usually are too strong and valid! Kakaka............

Ultraman

Hey, at my age, it is impossible to claim that I only fell in love once.
Everyone has his or her past, courtship is like a book: I closed one chapter and
start a new one; I do not think it is wrong.
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somewhereintime 發表於 2009-6-15 23:12

Did you make yourself clear enough?
Of course, I'm not talking about one has no past ex at all. The point is, you have ex, I have ex, but you are still "missing" and "thinking of" your ex, I am not. It's the "missing" and "thinking of" part that might upset your other half, not the history itself.

Ultraman

你係唔係問Ultraman呀?
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-6-16 00:01

How come?! If you follow my words clearly, you should know I am the type who don't buy missing and/or thinking of any ex is rightful and loyal to the current other half.