Ultraman

I don't know that guy and I'm not defending for guys. However, do you think you really know his true personally and stories? I have a male friend (totally not consider rich though) at his early 30, very eager to get a true gf and get married. But every time got "played" by gals, none of them really love my friend! And so, seems like he always change new gf lor.

In your case, especially that guy is somehow rich, who knows the true story.... maybe really those gals love his money more than himself?! (sorry, not to offend your female friends where applicable!) Maybe his method of getting a gal is too pushy, he could be a "good man" in certain ways leh?

[ 本帖最後由 Ultraman 於 2008-4-3 21:02 編輯 ]

Ultraman

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2008-4-3 21:20 發表

what you say is partially correct. i agree that the loser that i know really wants to find a gf. however, he just wants "a gf", not "a person he loves to be a gf". reason why i said that is because,  ...

Haha..... yes, I agree what you said is also partially correct! In general cases, the typical type of guys I mentioned (one of my male friend) have no skills to chase gals (not necessary means unexperienced) and also imply they're not the "playboy" type. If not, they could have had a stable gf or even got married already, isn't it right? (Haha...) And that's why they use the same old trick (and the only one trick they know) on all different gals! However, doesn't mean they're not loyal and honest to their every single gal. But of course, Rainy's case (and your case) might not be the above "general case" I mentioned.

Ultraman

Well, to be more precise,  唔識溝女 =/= 宅男 la! There are 3 types (or more than 3 types): 1.識溝女; 2.唔識溝女; and 3.宅男. No need to clarify 識溝女 la, but for 唔識溝女, those guys might still have lots of chances to keep contact with many different gals, they might still have their aim and target, just not skillful enough to get their gals. But for 宅男 (this particular term), they might not have much chance to deal with gals, and actually they feel too shy and lack of confidence to do so, even more, they might not have a clear mind that what kind of gals they do like, but whenever a gal comes in their sight might be their target of fantasy. I think the most we can say, type 2 (唔識溝女 type) can be called as "potato", but still a big difference to "宅男" lor.

Rather to call type 2 guys are 天真&傻 or 天真&笨; to compare with those gals who 要比人搞先有戰利品, what should we call them??

Ultraman

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2008-4-4 10:21 發表
Ultraman,
but 唔識溝女個D仔，點都會有"新竅"黎溝唔同既女。。。我咁講係因為，如果淨係送花唔出奇。點唔識溝女既男人，點都會觀察下個target先行動，or at least 問下試探下個target鍾意D乜丫。so i wouldn't say "唔識溝 ...

Hmm.... "playboy" or "識溝女" type not necessarily means they're rich or super rich. Same as, "唔識溝女" type also has different levels. The one in your case not only seems like a "唔識溝女" type, but because he always bring gals 食"唔洗比錢"既飯, it involves 縮骨/孤寒 tim la, doesn't mean he has no other better ideas in mind wor. "唔識溝女" type (sort of innocent) is way different than "cheap" type la, haha!

Ultraman

Usually there would be some blow water king in every forum. Why should we take it so serious? Haha.........