Ultraman

原帖由 samsung 於 2009-1-21 13:22 發表
Inspired by Ultraman...

Quote from Ultraman's post: "There must be a reason people doing something. I have friends who are gay or les, as long as they (gay ones) won't target me, I have no problem ...

First of all, may I charge you for a copyright fee sin? (Haha... just kidding!)

Seriously, 點解好多人話有朋友係﹐他又唔介意﹐但又叫人不要搞他﹐點解呀﹖
It's like, I respect you are a vegetarian, and of course I don't mind at all, but please don't force me to eat no meat!
I respect you (for example, doesn't mean you are gay) are gay, but since I'm not, you can grab your guy you like providing that he is in the same need, but not me.

Ultraman

原帖由 samsung 於 2009-1-21 15:24 發表

I don't know, ask Ultraman (refer to my #1).

Oh, throwing the ball to me?!

Honestly, I'm not an expert. But I believe, most men born to love women, and most women born to love men. It's like oppose poles attract and same poles repel. However, there are truly some people doing the other way around, and so I believe there must be a reason too. As far as I know, some cases are because some people were hurt by the opposite gender too much and can't get recover, and so they lost in trust in the different sex relationship, and then "changed" to be a gay or les. I also heard about from some people, said they have a feeling that they don't feel like interest in opposite sex but the other way round once they 懂事. They don't even know why themselves, but they have to follow their hearts instead of forcing themselves to love the opposite sex.
I think, it is more likely a psychological issue than physical one.

Ultraman

原帖由 samsung 於 2009-1-21 16:12 發表

but you said, "But I will question them why it's a good thing for them to believe. (questioning doesn't mean challenging)." wor

I question, means I wonder and I want to know what they think. And that's why, after my questions, I know how some of them think, and thus I can post for what I know (they said to me) as my previous reply.