GAClone

wow soooo many girls had bad experiences here wor...but seriously. this dude u're talking about makes us guys look SOOOOOO bad! there r STILL good guys out there! it just takes "yuen fun" to meet them i guess...or go out more w/ frds and get to know THEIR frds, maybe that'll help too ;)

as for ur trust factor. i understand it's something that will be in the back of ur head from now on when u're in a relationship. but u have to be fair to ur current bf. UNLESS he's done something similar, then u can treat him w/ the same doubt. but if he hasnt shown any signs of being a terrible bf, u have to cut him some slack and treat him the way he treats u.

i would hate for my gf to keep looking at me like i will do the same thing her ex did to her. if either one of u have doubt, then the relationship will not last long, or both of u will just be in pain for the entire duration of ur relationship

hope that was semi helpful at least and best of luck la~!

GAClone

Hm...i think if he did something before, you still have to treat him the way he is NOW. he might have been a stupid dude before and went around, but if he's more settled down now, then you should give him the benefit of the doubt. and you like him for him NOW right? not for what he WAS or HAS done before.

The second note...that's your own mentality that you will need to get over. if either way he is still doomed, then there's not much he can do about it...he's your boyfriend and not Superman, so he will love you the best he can, but his life cannot always revolve around yours.

GAClone

if he seems more settled, then take that he is more settled now and have trust in him ^______^ not sure how old u guys r, but young guys always go flirt anyways ga la~ seems to be the nature for every growing boy XD cant really change that fact i guess. have to accept him for who he is~ and he should do the same for you! i am FAR from a love guru, hope im not trying to make myself sound like one...hahaha

GAClone

text or msn? if text then u better delete it!

GAClone

just block him ;)

people like him just want/like the attention. and if u reply him, then he'll feel more confident and u'll just boost his ego. besides, people like him (since he's a player) are generally over-confident to begin with