advise needed

jasonparker

hey, everyone, this is my 1st thread here. I met my girlfriend in Australia in 2007, but soon after graduation there i came to Vancouver with my family and she went back to HK; We had a long distance relationship ever since, she flew over here a couple of times and i went to HK every year for a few days/weeks; we got engaged early this year but 2 weeks after that she told me she's changed, she said she still loves her highschool classmate in Australia...and she couldn't decide at the moment. Can anyone tell me what to do? Wait? move on? Many thanks...

jasonparker

Thank you lil white bear, we both wished to solve the distance problem by being together here in Vancouver; The guy visited her in HK right after the engagement while i was here in Vancouver, then she became different to me..no txt no phone call...she said she never be with the guy, but she loved him back then. the guy is Korean, he's in Korea, doing his 2nd year in college after resigning from army. She decided not to live a life here with me but to pursue somthing which may end up with nothing, and she said she didn't know why, but she said i deserve a better girl...i just, dont get it.

jasonparker

do you guys think it's the end of story? no turn around? probably right, even her family is on my side, she insists not coming back...

jasonparker

There is no "calculations" in a relationship. Not because of you have $100 more so a gal would love  ...
FiChai 發表於 2011-3-14 21:45

    yes, that's what i am doing right now; we talk over the phone every two to three days just to let each other know we are both fine, even it's tough for me to talk to a person like this. She keeps telling me she doesn't know what she wants, but it's kinda cruel to me whatsoever. i don't know if it's right to talk to her so much...