結婚前老公都有幫手做家務, 但係結左婚後成日要叫好多次先會幫手,
自己做左吾使等, 成日要叫好多次先會做.
以前都吾覺有甘多野要做，而家先知一個婚後既女人都幾忙 ga .
一星期五日返工, 放工make dinner,/ 做家務, 放假更家要做 because of laundry, cleaning up bathroom, kitchen, vaccum and etc.
yeah... sometimes really "寧願我自己妥妥當當清潔好全部野", but sometimes I'll let him to do it just for the sake of it... it is important to him feels that he is responsible (or suppose to do it) ...
meowmeowmeow 發表於 2009-5-19 00:28
totally agree... exactly!!! i don't need to him to physically do anything.. i like him to be enjoy whatever he is doing at home. i feel happy and sweet to take care of him, but it is really the feeling of being appreciated or thankful and knowing that he wants to take responsibility of his home are basically enough. Even sometimes if he will ask if he can help out, but not doing it, i will still be really happy. I agree and i still believe in traditional family, where women will do most of our house works.
However, doing houseworks after work and still working without feeling of being appreciated is just frustrating sometimes. we talked about it last night. i think we will be ok. Thanks so much for understanding how i feel .....
發表於 2009-5-18 13:57
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yeah... sometimes really "寧願我自己妥妥當當清潔好全部野", but sometimes I'll let him to do it just for the sake of it... it is important to him feels that he is responsible (or suppose to do it) ...