Nam

That's always the case and it's a tough call.
Best scenario is find a bf/gf before you start to gone crazy on your career.
And your other half is as ambitious as you.

Then it will be perfect.  My guy and I are both workaholic and we sacraficed all the romance/fun for our future. After work, we either dun see each other.
Or we just hug for few minutes or cook dinner together.
Then watch news, then go back to the room to study on our own....

So it's really up to what you really want lor..

Nam

BTW, I slack whole day at work because it's so noisy at my office.

They are renovating the new office and installing 3 more cubics....
so I can't even focus on my work....

Nam

But.....it's human nature, sometimes I will be childish and nag that I want to shop as much as I can.  Take so many photos like my friendsss on facebook.  Go on different trips and don't worry about buying a house....

Ai... but ask me to do all these and don't have a house or enough $$ for living, then I guess I can wait for couple years before I can do all these things....

Nam

原帖由 dreaming 於 2009-2-12 14:41 發表
I think it depends.  If your gf/bf is supportive and as crazy as you, you can do some dramatic things.  I really don't mind my bf do have a dramatic career life if he really wants.  As long as he is n ...

It's difficult sometimes.. Even if your bf/gf is as crazy as you.
once in a bluemoon, I will ask myself or him, why can't we just chill like others. Go on trips and dine out everyday? Not like we don't have that $$ to do so... then he/I will smile and "remind" each other... what we really want lor...

Nam

原帖由 jake123 於 2009-2-12 17:26 發表


Do you mind telling us why you need to study after work?

Study for certificate and destination.....?