aiya, gum dou blow water?
I'm not waiting for him to be "rich" but both of us are very aggressive and quite conservative on marriage.
Sure, I can get married just like my friend who is planning for this fall.
But without a shelter and solid income, I won't get married. Not like I'm old and need to get married asap..
It's also NOT about us, we have to take care of his mom as well.
People can easily say get married but we have to buy two units for us and for his mom (if I don't want to live with her) So it's not that easy...
May be I'm too traditional la. I want to be financially ready before I get married & have children. I want to have enough $$ for their education and give them the best I can provided.
A lot of people get married because "love" and end up divorce.
Why? Because they are not ready mentally and financially...
In fact, I'm not planning to spend so much on the wedding. After all, it's just one big show. I rather to have people who truly care about me to be in my wedding. Those $$$ can be my down payment. Why pour all $$$ on just one day?
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