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原帖由 小叻 於 2009-2-12 12:00 發表
如父母離婚﹐有2個小孩﹐做父親的不想負責任﹐唔想俾膽養費。母親一人難以負擔供樓﹐還債﹐沒有工作經驗而且要照顧2個小孩。是否可以向法庭控訴丈夫? 如政府判決父親要俾膽養費﹐但佢賤格到唔上班羅Welfare﹐或潛水番香港並取消加 ...

Don't let the father get away.  The mom can sue him....
Don't follow my bf's mom path... she let him get away and that a$$hole never pay a penny after he left and he took all $$$ away from the family.....

By law, the father supposed to pay & take care of the kids until the kid turn 18. I think... if not, one more important thing is, don't let the kid work before finishing education.   My bf's dad get away because my bf works hard in school and work.... so since he is CAPABLE to support himself through university.  His dad can get away....

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And also watch out he will make up some excuses that he cannot work due to sickness.

My bf 's a$$ hole dad used that excuse to get away.  He claimed he has sore back and he cannot work... and he has his "own" family too...
so he "doesn't" work and "the wife" (the new woman) has enough saving... so he can be exempt.

This type of things has to handle fast.. Once you miss the chance, you can hardly sue him again....

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You better hurry up and contact lawyer.
Even if your mom or you don't have enough $$$ to hire a laywer, I think you can get help from government.  From what I heard from my bf, they went to government to seek help.  And court order his dad to support their living (since he took all $$ and change the $$ from asset to real cash, so he has NO $$ ) , then he got scared and "tum" his mom don't waste $$ on lawyer.

They will do it on their own.... and his mom "soft heart" and believe what he say...........and ever since she went back to Vancouver (he went to Toronto...) , no way to sue him.........

and that's not the end of it... I think last year, my bf made a phone call and asked that a$$hole to pay for his tuition.  He only wire 3000 to my bf and THINK he has the right to be his dad.  And start lecturing my bf being does not respect him blah blah blah....and he keep making up excuses like, I have my own family to support too......and I don't have control over the $$ , it's the woman who does has control....

AND, yes, he has no money, but he has money to support that WOMAN's daughter to study university and buy expensive piano etc etc....TO support OTHERS kid not his own kid..... WTF

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So my bf wire back the $$ back to his dad via his "ai ya sister"...
and never pick up his dad phone again....

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原帖由 siumaibb 於 2009-2-12 12:37 發表


good, 一開頭就唔應該問佢要, your bf should study hard, get a good life and make his dad SHAME.

He did study hard and pay for his tuition.
He and I just got so mad one day when we heard about his dad from his uncle.
And he was closed to finish the education. So I suggested him to call his dad.

I just think, we shouldn't listen to one side story. Perhaps, his dad has his reason or he wants to pay and be responsible for the family now.  Who know?

Then.........I regret to convince him to call his dad because ..... now, we know as a fact that his dad is an a$$.

Oh, and all the $$$ he took away was not HIS $$$.  His mom is the one who make most of the $$$.........

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原帖由 B仔 於 2009-2-12 12:43 發表
近排我都聽問一單個老豆又係咁仆街。。。。個男人搭上洗頭妹，棄妻棄子，仲同個老婆講屋企有空房，叫個洗頭妹搬去一齊住。。。

Not neccessary a young woman gei...

I know a friend's mom ... hook up with a married man.
She moved to Toronoto to live with "his wife" and "his familiy"....
and "the wife" just keep silent.... .

These a$$hole men are very common...
Almost most ofmy friend dad are irresponsible.. or done similar things...

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That's why woman should remain financial independent and also has her own career.  Not just a normal career but a succesful one.

Imagine one day, your husband leave you and debt.  If you make enough money, you won't suffer too much,eh?

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原帖由 小叻 於 2009-2-12 13:08 發表


Agree.. but it's kinda hard to maintain career while having children... or we should say 女人要戴眼識人

gum there is day care and our own parents ga ma.
It's hard and need other half to support us too.