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原帖由 Toppy 於 2009-2-12 19:34 發表



They want the benefits of having a GF or BF, but they don't want to spend time and energy on a relationship.

I think you're making an incorrect assumption here. I believe what ACC-HE is trying to point out is that if someone has a bf/gf, then some career-related decisions that are made can affect that person's other half. Because of this factor, having a bf/gf may sometimes make one think twice about certain career-related decisions compared to when one does not have a bf/gf.

This doesn't really say anything about whether that person is willing to invest time and energy in a relationship. Correct me if I'm wrong ACC-HE.