tofu

戀愛的目的是戀愛 x3

tofu

"""如果你可以放低目的，嚟愛一個人，你會覺得更開心"""
you are lucky, if you can find this person and won't broke up with this person.  otherwise, good luck la.

tofu

"""Love should be 自私... The bottom line is, not to hurt anyone, including yourself..."""
there is a conflict, if love is selfish, you will hurt someone eventually.  you left the person you don't love anymore or you keep bugging the one you love or ....

tofu

truth love shouldn't be selfish, but still any truth love in the real world.
therefore, 為自己 is important la... x2