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agree with utopia...i'm abt to thinking abt letting go my almost 6 yrs gf...dunno wht i can say without hurting her

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yeah...my heart moves somewhere but its really  really tough

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the hardest to accept is the moment that finally happens..if most of the gf think the same way as u do utopia it will make a lot lives a lot easier, won't it b great if someone can invent a way to break up without any hard feelings

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原帖由 utopia 於 2007-12-7 10:57 發表
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It takes me so many years to develop this theory to comfort myself.
You can imagine how much pain I have suffered from the past relationship.

Yet, understanding these theories is one thing. It ...

i just let her go yesterday..the pain is just totally devastating..but it's going to be good for both sides..i dun think i can recover from it completely

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原帖由 myversa 於 2007-12-7 16:43 發表
You will meet a better girl and

You will recover from it completely, i am sure of that.  

Good luck!

thx! i hope she can really meet a better guy than me as well. if it turns out i ruin her love life..i will blame myself forever for that

[ 本帖最後由 news 於 2007-12-9 10:54 編輯 ]

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原帖由 utopia 於 2007-12-7 16:45 發表
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If you did spend  quit e some time with someone in the past, you can never recover from it forever. Not meaning you will still love that person in the future but part of the memories will remai ...

yeah sometimes some song or scenes will remind me of the previous ex too..it took me around 3 yrs to get the pain away completely...for this ex..we had so much memories, good times and bad times together. saw this from the other thread:

原帖由 Anonymous 於 2007-12-8 21:45 發表
如果你真愛一個人，

就要愛他原來的樣子─愛他的好，

也愛他的壞： 

愛他的優點，也愛他的缺點， 



真正愛一個人是無法說出原因的， 

你只知道無論何時何地、心情好壞，你都希望這個人陪著你； 真正的感情是兩人能在最艱苦中相守，也就是沒有絲毫要求。 

畢竟，感情必須付出，而不是只想獲得；

so very true and i think there would be a dark sport in my heart for the rest of my life for mistreating someone that did exactly the above for me. if she can't find someone else better in the future, i will feel bad for the rest of my life.

[ 本帖最後由 news 於 2007-12-9 10:51 編輯 ]