我的野蠻女友/男友

benyaoguai

have you been with someone with violent tendency? @.@
how violent ?
how did you deal with it?
how long before you break up with the person? :p

benyaoguai

原帖由 Anonymous 於 2009-2-25 05:35 PM 發表
And I should mention that domestic violence is much more common then you can imagine. I have grown up from a violent family, with violent immediate relatives from both sides, and I have seen friends i ...

i know~ i have researched on things like that for a project
but since you've been through it~ did you help yourself?
and what kinda things were going through ur mind if you did or didn't go get help?

benyaoguai

原帖由 pepsis2 於 2009-2-27 02:39 PM 發表
In my definition, 我的野蠻女友/男友 is like what's in the korean movie 我的野蠻女友... hitting for fun but not abusing or beating... is more like playing & flirting....

it's a cuter and less serious title for this topic i guess XD

benyaoguai

原帖由 giginium 於 2009-2-25 10:49 PM 發表


google battered women syndrome and you'll get some information on what classifies as this syndrome, as well as what women in this situation do and think.

i have done research~ but i haven't talked to anybody who's been through that.. @.@.. it's different~
i tend to just take online / book info as generalization~
unless it's a very detail study XD.. but.. who has the time to read those.. :p

benyaoguai

原帖由 Anonymous 於 2009-2-26 09:00 AM 發表

I have not been through it quite yet - I am still going through it.
My stream of conciousness constantly alerts me, and it is the catch 22 where you are torned between "life" and "love". At the end,  ...

well~ what's life without love?
but what's love with abuse? have you thought about that?
if it's love? why would it be toture?
of it's toture.. isn't it time to let go?