benyaoguai

i'm a girl.... and i don't even know which one to choose...

i have the dilemma of.... sometimes i wanna go back to work for a couple of years~ just to see what it'll be like to work in asia~~ don't want to stay there permanently for sure~ cuz i do like vancouver lots.....
but chances are my bf probably will not go owith me~ he got his job here~ he doesn't speak chinese... so dunno what to do..

i tend to sometimes feel like i should be selfish and choose career... but.. at the same time.. i can't just not think about him...
complicated

benyaoguai

my gf does have the similar situation as you. that makes me worry...
probably your bf may has the same "worries" as mine...

that is a such dilemma. even worse that your bf doesn't speak chinese, so t ...
xelloss 發表於 2009-7-16 11:03 PM

hmm~ i agree and disagree ....
i agree that i should hold on to the person who loves me and that I love..
but at the same time ... i believe if he loves me~ he can just let me do what i want to do for a couple of years........
don't really think neither of us will cheat or anything like that~ and we can probably make the long D thing work
it's just~ i don't have the hearts to see him suffer... that's all...
even though he says he'd probably be okay with it....