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"用了三年多時間去等，等到最後要結婚了，我卻離開了"

甘你都幾PK wor seriously

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Davidcopperfeel 發表於 2010-7-16 03:00

我覺得Nam 不是等待去結婚, 而是等待著去被愛和被珍惜。

我覺得你的用語過於苛刻, considering it is only a feedback for a 4 sentences response。

要知道結婚並不總是等於珍惜，因為每個情況都是不一樣的。

作為一個女人，我們只是想被愛和被珍惜。
隨著我們成長，我們知道there's no perfect world。

有時候,我們要懂得放手。試過,努力過,如果還是真的覺得大家不適合對方的話, 何不放手, 讓大家好過。勉強繼續下去也不會有好結果。

很多時候，女孩子不是想要逼婚，也不只是因為她是時候要結婚了, 所以要求男朋友結婚。她只是想知道她是在等待甚麼，並且是要等到甚麼時候。

如果男朋友不想結婚, 而那個女的想要結婚。可能是那個男的還沒有準備好,或者he's just not that into her, 或者還有其他的原因/理由。那就是説他倆現在不適合對方。等與不等是很個人的決定, 因爲不是每一次都能守得與雲開見月明的。

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Well i think you're a little misunderstood here.
According to her story "我， ...
Davidcopperfeel 發表於 2010-7-16 14:08

As I mentioned "我覺得你的用語過於苛刻, considering it is only a feedback for a 4 sentences response。" It is really hard to judge someone/situation by a 4 sentences response. The reason I response to this thread is because seems like that someone is taking this too serious, and responded 偏激咗少少.

Also, "要知道結婚並不總是等於珍惜，因為每個情況都是不一樣的。" I knew Nam's story, that's why I posted the previous comments. Therefore, I won't expect you to totally understand the situation. Plus, guys' point of views might be different from girls.

According to your logic, ("What i was saying was if the guy Did Not 珍惜和愛她 he didn't have to marry her. But she didn't cherish the love.") If she doesn't love and care about the bf, she would not be with him for 3 years la.

I do appreciate your responses, but anyways, 子非余，焉知余之乐。。。。。。