meowmeowmeow

戀愛既目的是﹕同自己心愛既人執子之手與子偕老~互相關懷, 珍惜, 照顧, 無論貧困與病苦~

另一半並不是為了你而生存~ 並不是為你解苦悶﹐解身體需要。這並不是愛﹗ 這是自私﹗
當另一半再達唔到你既要求就離去? 當 ...
小叻 發表於 2009-4-30 12:55

I agree 小叻 that 苦悶, 身體需要 should not be the intention.

but I also agree with B仔 that love is 自私... I want someone that I can 關懷, 珍惜, 照顧, of coz hopefully with the same return. But 當另一半再達唔到my 要求 as not loving me , not 關懷, 珍惜, 照顧 me anymore. I will try to fix it, otherwise, letting go is also a form of love...

meowmeowmeow

如果想法同我係相反嘅人覺得愛係偉大，不是自私的。。。我問你：

你可以由此至終一直愛一個愛你嘅人

不過有幾多人，係可以由此至終一直愛一個不愛你嘅人？當你愛上一個不愛你嘅人，你或你的好友會同你講，放棄啦， ...
B仔 發表於 2009-5-1 00:24

That's right... once again... Love in away should be 自私...
At the end of the day, being in love should be happy, if you are not happy, then there's no point of being in love la...
The botton line is, not to hurt others, including yourself...

meowmeowmeow

"""Love should be 自私... The bottom line is, not to hurt anyone, including yourself..."""
there is a conflict, if love is selfish, you will hurt someone eventually.  you left the person you don't lov ...
tofu 發表於 2009-5-1 01:32

That is just an ideal~~~ of coz everyone got hurt in love...
A love B, but B doesn't love. A will get hurt. Just try to min the "injury".
Don't attempt to hurt others intensionally...

just my 2 cents...

meowmeowmeow

吾係話自私，正確d麼該話係為自己
ricrick 發表於 2009-5-1 02:35

yeah... 為自己 is important la...

meowmeowmeow

戀愛本身是無目的，你鐘意米鐘意law = 屙屎
但係找戀愛的對像便是有目的 = 搵合適的廁所屙屎
ricrick 發表於 2009-5-2 01:39

Don't use 屎 la..   Don't compare 戀愛 to 屎 la...