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曾經有男友話我無street smart, 又懶，又唔多鐘意打扮，又無上進心，當時我同佢暗示，當我做晒時，就唔會係佢身邊！

三年後嘅我，識打扮，事業心非常重，上進，但身邊個個已經唔係佢！當一個所謂花瓶唔再係花瓶時， ...
Nam 發表於 2009-10-16 23:50

thats's so true neh...

Sigh... for some reason my bf gave me an impression that he thinks that I "無street smart, 又懶" do not how to take care of myself and need to find a proper job.
I dunno how I am not working a proper job, and not able to take care of myself loh...

My mom said it is good that a guy think that way, cuz he will take care of you and think about you more.
I understand that guys tenses to like to take care of "weaker" girls.
But seriously, I do not want to be a 100% 花瓶 and i do not consider myself as a 花瓶 loh.

So mah fan....

meowmeowmeow

噉你有冇覺得佢有street smart過你，同佢係吾係好識照顧自己？
spl3nd1d 發表於 2009-10-17 20:24

I think it is not the matter of who is smarter loh...

My point is, we should be treating each other equally. We should be taking care of each other mah...
I appreciate what he has done for me, and I hope that him could also show his appreciation mah...