meowmeowmeow

My concern in this case, is that the guy 利用the love of that girl to satify his 慾望. That's not fair. And that will definitely hurt that girl.

By look at it in another way, it is a fair trade, as long as the guy is going to "love" her back. BUT, how could he guarantee that he COULD love her back?

I guess everyone's prospect is different. But during a relationship, it is hard to be fair. You could try to, but who can guarantee 100%?

meowmeowmeow

Also, I do not want my partner to be 青頭. To me, a perfect relationship includes both love & sex. Should compatible between your hearts and also sex. I do not want a guy who doesn't know what he is "doing".

meowmeowmeow

sigh.. this topic can go on and on... Cuz everyone have different prospective...

I am sure, this case happened in different generations. It is just no one would actually bring it up to talk about it openly to discuss their reall opinion before. In the old days, everyone have to act like they are "traditional", if not, they will be consider as sluts...

As long as you feel good about, do not regret, and not hurting other people. At the end of the day, it is your own life. (dunt let your parents know, they'll get hurt LOL)

meowmeowmeow

sometimes the responsiblity is bigger than someone can bare then what?  plus not everyone will bare the responsibility then what?  who will clean up the mess?
shutterbug 發表於 2009-4-30 15:37

true boh... making sure you are responsible and COULD take the responsibilities also count as not hurting other. Think about have a baby, when you are still in school, not mentally and financially ready- it is hurting your family, the society, the baby and even yourself.

meowmeowmeow

hey, if a free-range chicken flies into your backyard, are you going to take it and eat it?  of course, I will.. lol.   free wor..

Of course, if it is a pork chop flying into your backyard, i don' ...
rainbow-davie 發表於 2009-4-30 16:39

sadly, but true... I won't say all, but most guys are like that nowadays...

And i know girls do that too.
One of my friend's quote" You better "eat" it first, before you regret" referring to a hot guy approaching her (of coz when she is single la... )

There's no absolute right or wrong, as I said as long as you don't hurt anyone (incluidn yourself) la.

meowmeowmeow

對唔住!因為我既道德觀點不同~ 對於這類型這種思維既男人﹐我斗膽一句﹕ “賤格﹗”*拍拍 (左右一把掌)*  
小叻 發表於 2009-4-30 16:53

hahahaha

meowmeowmeow

Actually, 我覺得個男仔本質唔算太差, 講到明上床先拍拖, 無騙個女仔, 個女仔明知道而去make this decison 係佢既問題...

或者, 會唔會係個女成件扒咁, 個男為左要個女知難而退而定下咁既要求, 點知個女就覺得好呀, ...
rainbow-davie 發表於 2009-4-30 23:16

Yeah... at lease 講到明上床先拍拖, 無騙個女仔, 個女仔明知道而去make this decison 係佢既問題... it is her choice, as long as she is @ a legal age la of coz...

Better than that guy pretend to like that girl, and got her in bed. Dump right after.
or
the guy only agree to be fb and not 拍拖.
or
booty calls only... etc...

We might not agree to them, but that's life, I've seen worst...

I have friend who is still a virgin when she is in her late 20s. She is very cute gar...
But she just believe that she want to save the best until marriage for her husband.

I would not agree that to myself, but I do respect her and support. I told her not to change her thoughts because of anyone except herself.  Be true to yourself is the most important.

meowmeowmeow

個女仔保護自己D乜？佢嘅感情？可能，如果個男嘅連X都唔唔肯X個女仔，個女仔嘅心靈會仲傷。。。LOL
B仔 發表於 2009-5-1 00:18

in a way, that's true geh...