From wat I understand from the site... you r trying to tell everyone how much u love your girl.. you hope creatiing such website would prove that you can go far to show how much you love Grace... The website could surely prove the point. However, that's not the real problem here... I bet they know you love her a lot.. Their concern is your health.. the future of her daughter... I think your solution is to make lots of money.. buy $$$$$$$$$ healthy insurance .. and get healthy ..