奶奶同新抱....before and after 新抱, 奶奶

katamari

Inspired from 我奶奶癡左線 by 華美子.

好多時見到響婚禮０既情景總有好感人０既speech新抱多謝奶奶教左個好好０既仔出來, 多謝到又攬又喊。見到呢鼠話奶奶永遠當新抱外人，新抱又話奶奶呢樣０個樣。而家先知Ｄ朋友有幾真心講Ｏ個段speech，背後有幾“情深“可想而知 . 究竟係咩問題兩個女人會天生水火不容？定根本雙方都冇想過要為之間得關係作出改善？男人作為老公聽到老婆話自己阿媽或者阿媽數自己老婆又會覺得點？

大家討論下順便同呢個subforum開下光哈哈哈

katamari

原帖由 華美子 於 2008-1-7 16:32 發表
又會拖埋我落水都有架？

之前大家未一齊住，我同奶奶關係都好好。我送咩野比我媽咪，我都送同樣既野比佢，而且貴過買比自己。

我奶奶終於走左啦，大家好黎好去，笑笑下咁送佢機囉。佢之前個晚煮Ｄ送，我都食埋啦，比足面佢。我同老公 ...

Sorry I am not intended to 拖埋我落水 ga! Please don't mind I started a related discussion =).

Sounds like it's the problem of living together. Can I ask the guys... if your mom and your wife cannot get along, will you shut your ears or what? Haha just curious!

katamari

原帖由 tsumorichisato 於 2008-1-7 18:46 發表
"BUT i would say most "wife VS lai-lai" is caused by:
1. traditional subborn lai-lai VS contemporary thinking wife
2. high-maintainence wife VS neglected sticky lai-lai"



cruel but so ...

haha so true!

BTW do you guys think most lai lai think the daughter-in-law has taken away her son after getting married?

katamari

原帖由 blueprint 於 2008-1-8 21:33 發表
I feel that sometimes the relationship (mother-in-law and daughter-in-law) is complicated because we tend to think too much.   And then start the cycle where daughters-in-law chat how tough things are ...

This is true, problems always appear when both sides start to think too much. Blueprint your reply is actually very encouraging!

原帖由 tsumorichisato 於 2008-1-8 20:10 發表
話時話我都見過有D 新抱可以對99好似啊媽0甘好﹐個situation 就個新抱個親生媽媽好早就唔響度既囉

我覺得你地好勁架啦。比著我遇上呢D 99﹐ 我都唔知我頂唔頂得順 ...

Honestly I have been married for 2 years, I am treating my husband's family like my own family, they treat me the same way too. I always tell my hubby that I am the lucky one because we never have to deal with these 奶奶同新抱 matters. I gotta mention to you guys that my mom is ALIVE !

katamari

其實都唔好對我地０既ＬＹＫ太太團太ＨＡＲＳＨ，起碼而家講左出來好過死忍。不過對自己阿媽又好對奶奶都好，我自己成日會記住將心比己，點都唔好傷害自己屋企人囉。努力啦，同老爺奶奶關係好Ｄ，你同老公感情都好Ｄ啦！