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﹐他可以響那邊識得一條女唔夠一個月就同居﹐算點窩﹖ 好鬼濫囉。。。,

Yup, I agree that he's not meant to have long term relationship with you...he can do that behind your back (or back in TW), there's no guarantee that he won't do that after you 2 got married...

Trust me on that part (I've seen some of my friends suffered because of that, and even some auntie currently into similar situations even after they were married for over 20+ yrs.....pity)

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Maybe you are right, but from the outside: they (some of these aunties) are swallowing hard just because of the family, their kids (yeah, now into their 20s), and lifestyle, etc. so much that they cannot put down or let go....so they are still going along even though their unfaithful husband has 2-lai outside ....

I'm not in a position to criticise, just more like an observation.

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IMHO maturity takes time and experience (like encountered some relationships) before one can wise up.

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