zuesel

I had situation such as yours too. It was so hard to decide.
I asked myself:
-Do I want to work 6 days+ per week in HK vs 5 in Van?
-Can I tolerate poor service / materialism / impoliteness of people?
-Can I get used to people talking very loudly and spitting everywhere?
-Do I like to make friends that can be quite fake?
-I love the shopping
-I love the great food and choices of
-I love the endless choice of entertainment!

On top of them though, I had to ask:
-Can my HK boss and coworkers tolerate me?
-Will my "western" style personality create stress more than challenge?
-will I miss my relatives and friends in Canada?

I am not as career oriented then most guys. So my problem was solved by going to hk almost once / year! I am taking advantage of both worlds!

You know, Vancouver isn't bad that it's quite close to HK in a way. I consider it a blessing that we have the opportunity and funds to travel anywhere we like and speak both languages fluently, plus chances of a taste of both contries.

Count your blessings and let God take care of the rest!

zuesel

So that's why Acc-He is saying that considering he's young and all. If he is going to challege and experience something new, now is the time! So kids and marriage isn't coming to his mind yet.

For myself, I am getting married in less than 1 month. Having kid or not is an entire issue on its own, nvm about which country to live. But I will choose Canada for my kids to grow up in for sure!

zuesel

I agree with Shutterbug. It all depends on WHO you are, NOT where you are!

zuesel

原帖由 Ultraman 於 2008-5-14 11:28 發表

Err......... excuse me...... I think that was from my mouth instead of SB?! Haha......... J/K! (thx!)

sorry, i keep getting you two mixed up!