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sigh~ Cheer up Kitty!
May you meet a friend that is true and loyal some day soon.

I have recently  said to myself: "enough is enough" I've had to classify my friends into different levels. I treat each level and give and take depending on which level they are in. It's said that I've had to move a friend down to the bottom of my list when that friend used to be on the top. It was a degression, just the longer I know this person, the more I find out that we are not compatible. No matter how nice I was, how forgiving (include accepting insults, lies, poor treatment). I wasn't able to be happy. So I had to ask myself why I need to suffer? I have a choice! A choice to be happy and choose friends that I am happy to be with! I will not treat that friend's hurting words or meanness stab me anymore. I will treat them as powerless, harmful feathers! After thinking clearly, I am happy again. It makes me appreciate those that ARE my good friends even more! This person will still remain as a friend but a very casual one that I won't care for anymore like I used to. I don't regret having been nice and sharing all I had with that friend. Just that I will shift that energy and kindness to someone else who deserves my kindness more!

Mun sam mo kwai is good enough.

Don't live for the bad, enjoy the good! Focus on how she gave you the opportunity to learn to be stronger, smarting instead of how she made you sad and hurt.

Cheer up girl. "If the bad won't go, the good won't come!"