weewee

Smelly Tofu,
Sorry to hear about what happened. As per the girl perspective and also being the one who dumped my ex (a 7 yr+ relationship). I can tell you that she would feel just as bad as you are feeling right now. Probably it has nothing to do with you, it is just her realizing that she wanted something else and that it just wouldn't work out.
There's nothing that you can't handle, just give it time. You'll end up somehow seeing that it is for the best for both in the long run. Treasure the memory and try to keep a lasting friendship.

weewee

You'll just grow to become a stronger person and you'll learn from your mistakes from your prior relationships. The pain goes go away, will find someone new and life do go on. In the end, you end up being a better person and a better gf/bf for the next person to come.