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Hyde

you suck in life

Alcoholic

Mr. Lik,

she has no time + you have no time = please pop your little brain fart la

Guy

if no confident .....just give up

asmok

Sounds like you got no way in... mind as well give up.

Alcoholic

but that is not an option for Mr. Lik
he says he has absolutely NO TIME for relationship...
so maybe this whole chasing coworker thing is just here to satisfy his imaginary self...planning for if one day he really has time even chase a girl, or eventually have a gf...

but i can tell you... being on event planning committee is VERY time consuming. when you have so much to coordinate, i don't even think you'll have time to use to mix the girl. so imo, it's still not the way to go.

however, PARTICIPATING in the event & asking the girl to go would me more realistic. but since, they can't even have a coffee break together, or have no time to walk over to her department to ask her for coffee... i doubt that will happen either

Guy

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2007-12-21 09:23 發表
company event planning, there's usually a committee that does it. it's not like you can just jump in, & jump in with her to participate. which, is still related to work... i'm sure when you're chasing ...

of cuz you cant just jump in and become one of the committee member, but you can start by being a part of the event helper and, then, ask her to join with you when there is an opportunity.

Alcoholic

原帖由 utopia 於 2007-12-22 12:39 PM 發表
Getting msn is a good point too. I don't mind giving out my msn but not my phone # because if I don't like that guy I can put him on my ignore list or simply answer him only when I'm bored at work

second this.
some guys, they are neither bees or KYB...they're simply my entertainment

utopia

原帖由 Guy 於 2007-12-21 01:33 發表
EASY

No need fancy ideas to jump start

just organized (or take part in ) a office party together and ask her to be a part of the organizers.

Minor Notes:
>If she not able to come to the part ...

I like this idea. Be the head social commitee and organize office social event lor. Then from there, you can start having her to join your event or even better, you might able fish a better one other than this girl. From there, you don't have to worry how to start a conversation with her.

Getting msn is a good point too. I don't mind giving out my msn but not my phone # because if I don't like that guy I can put him on my ignore list or simply answer him only when I'm bored at work