Davidcopperfeel

Play the game, know the rules.
Get marry when you both think is "Ready"
If he/she is not on the same page then don't.
You can either Wait/Leave.

要知道being force to係無point

Davidcopperfeel

好像在寫著我的過去......
Purpleheart 發表於 2010-7-15 22:06

    依家好mic得law

Davidcopperfeel

很有同感的一句話

我，曾經很愛一個人，用了三年多時間去等，等到最後要結婚了，我卻離開了，不是 ...
Nam 發表於 2010-7-15 23:39

    "用了三年多時間去等，等到最後要結婚了，我卻離開了"

甘你都幾PK wor seriously

    "不是不愛，我愛他，也許，未來的日子，我不會再那麼愛一個人，但是作為一個女人，我做的已經太多"

人地都同你結婚啦﹐你以為you're the only one whos "做的已經太多"﹖﹖﹖
Grats to the man who didn't marry you at the end
If you have no idea how to cherish your relationship 幾 "LOVE" 都係 "假"

     "我實在無法再消耗青春去等他有一天會珍惜我，會記得我不竟還是一個女人。。。。。。"

人地都同你結婚lok wtf is "我實在無法再消耗青春去等他有一天會珍惜我"  ?????
同你結婚"都唔算表示想珍惜你"甘你jon想點呀﹖﹖﹖lmao

If he/she only wants a "bf/gf" then there is no point of 結婚.
Learn to cherish what you have and you'll be happy

Davidcopperfeel

my gf is not ready to live together as a unit.

adoring her,  but she just not prepare to be a wife  ...
Anonymous 發表於 2010-7-15 21:31

"everything in front of her is just all about her and her only.
cant cook/ cant dance/ not doing good on bed.
still waiting to get marry cuz we are for each other"


seems like your point of view is to get marry with your gf but your point here
"cant cook/ cant dance/ not doing good on bed."
all these blaming for what?
so are you saying you cherish her even tho she can't cook, can't dance and not even good for F UCK??

what i suggest you is to get a 賓妹 for day time Hookers/**** buddies at night

Davidcopperfeel

Part 2
我平靜的說出我的想法。你嘆口氣，皺起眉，沒有說話， 我感覺得到，你的心裡掙扎的厲害。
『如果你 ...
zuesel 發表於 2010-7-15 20:13

Whoever wrote this thread is pathetic

"我真的喜歡妳，並且是理性的"
lets see 理性的喜歡妳=有逻辑地喜歡妳
但係理性同感性係相对。

So he likes you as 理性 but not 感性

"逻辑" - He said he likes you because you're not his 女人 yet or he wants some others things from you.
But he never felt 感性地喜歡/love you. (According the information from the thread)
You can pretty much "say or promise anything you want" while trying to "Seduce" someone because is "FREE"


"女人等的到底是什麼其實女人們真的蠻傻的， 願意拿青春來做賭注，"

女人既青春係時間﹐用時間黎做賭注。
甘男人既青春/時間又算係d咩呢﹖﹖

"嚐過愛情的傷痛之後似乎對愛情的看法已改變
當你一昧的只為對方想那麼這個天平就偏了，
到底愛情是什麼？為何要因為愛對方而把自己推向劣勢呢？
樣樣事情都以對方優先反而忘了自己呢？ 所以.....女人們......要堅強喔...女人! 不是弱者。"

用"天平"去行量愛情?? Then you gotta be good at Math
All she thought of was "herself".

She was even "一腳踏兩船" - what a f  king bitc


Example:

1990 Miata owner as "Woman"
new porsche owner as "Man"

Owner of a 1990s Miata wants to get a New Porsche 911, by the time she knew she can never get the car no matter what .Then she starts to hate the Porsche owners

吃不到的葡萄﹐都唔一定係酸既~

Davidcopperfeel

回復  Davidcopperfeel

你的說話偏激咗少少。 雖然你D指出十分好但是語氣唔駛太激動嘅.
Btw, this story  ...
zuesel 發表於 2010-7-16 11:29

"While time is important to both parties, youth is a woman's 財產和本錢, 仲係要洗咗搵唔返囉. If her goal is a man that loves her and have a family, too late la and fat chance la! No matter how successful she is in career, wealth, she's still a "rotten orange" or "fill the stove's gap". But an ugly old man who has money can satisfy his needs at any age!"

Your facts are true but that goes to both parties. Man's youth worths 財產和本錢, and most of the time they have to pay the REAL 財產和本錢 too.

Many guys want to have money , woman and family too and thats depands on how much the "woman" worths to him.
財產和本錢 are basic sources for every human.
And trust me if you're a fat and ugly woman with "Cash" you still get your toy but thats just a " Toy " and that goes to man as well.

Pretty much if you know your game you'll play it well. If you're being lead then "Sorry" come back when you're ready for it. (play the game wisely and gaining experience should help for most ppl)


was kinda funny she felt 一腳踏兩船 was aight like seeing another man compared him with his man was aright to her.
(Thats the wtf part)


If your man compared you with another (not bad)girl. - Turn it to your position where you're being judged by your beloved.

Think it more realisticly.... Your man fked this girl in the afternoon (with no protection) then comes home and say sweetie i miss you so much and bababa then have sex with you again at night.

If you don't want that kinda shi ..... please don't expect he'll take it.

And don't tell everyone you're being "FORCE TO" because he's bad and bababa.....

You don't like him then dump him 一腳踏兩船 is bs.(there are no reasons for that no matter what) and thats call "Respect"

Davidcopperfeel

回復 16# meowmeowmeow


Well i think you're a little misunderstood here.
According to her story "我，曾經很愛一個人, 用了三年多時間去等，等到最後要結婚了."
Her wish was becoming true but then "等到最後要結婚了，我卻離開了，"

"不是不愛，我愛他，也許，未來的日子，我不會再那麼愛一個人，但是作為一個女人，我做的已經太多，但不被珍惜的時候，我實在無法再消耗青春去等他有一天會珍惜我，"

What i was saying was if the guy Did Not 珍惜和愛她 he didn't have to marry her.
But she didn't cherish the love.

And really if she was "mature enough" to know what she was expecting, then she wouldn't change her mind.


"有時候,我們要懂得放手。試過,努力過,如果還是真的覺得大家不適合對方的話, 何不放手, 讓大家好過。勉強繼續下去也不會有好結果。"

This can only apply in the beginning.

BUT NOT for someone who is going to get marry and thats what she asked in the beginning.(she got what she wants but now she thinks its too late)

Put it this way if you're the guy Seriously no one wants to get dumped when they prepared to Marry someone for the rest of their life. Is easy to let the person go but this can never be recovered.


"作為一個女人，我們只是想被愛和被珍惜"

- Everything is about yourself....you wanna 被愛 you wanna 被珍惜

What about your man?? He is a man with blood too.


"隨著我們成長，我們知道there's no perfect world。"

Yes life is not fair/perfect if someone you love asked you to get marry then on the wedding day he said " I DON'T F UCKING WANT YOU ANYMORE" Please take it.-   Now you see?

Don't wanna explain more too tired have to go back to work now. Anyways this is only my personal thoughts

PLEASE don't take it too seriously

Davidcopperfeel

任何友情，感情，愛情都是雙方面的。一方面想結婚，一方面不想，都勉強不來，勉強亦無幸福。
但真的，女人 ...
fibbi 發表於 2010-7-16 14:13

like i said earlier if the man has no money he will get no girls too when he gets old.
Same for woman you can get any guys you want if you have the cash.

By the way life is not fair either you play the game wisely or being play
there are no guaranteed

Davidcopperfeel

我諗david 哥誤會我嘅意思，我等嘅唔係結婚，我亦唔係籮低橙，我等嘅係被尊重，珍惜！

放手唔一定要係係開 ...
Nam 發表於 2010-7-17 00:38

A man that wants to be with you for the rest of his life DOESNT mean he LOVES YOU???
Please enlighten me?????

Maybe he wants to steal your LV bags after marry your ass

If you really LOVE him than first you gotta Adjust yourself to be suitable for him and ACCEPT every part of him.

If you never felt this way than don't bother telling people how much effort you put in.
I feel sick of hearing all these 尊重/珍惜 and you're too self-center by telling everyone how much effort/time you put into your relationship and having a BAD return from your bf.  (sounds like he didn't do sh1t for this relationship) girl you're not the only human being on this planet.

If you can feel the pain so does your bf.



Srsly i don't know your story but,

LOVE is nothing like 1+1 is not like that. When you're TRULY LOVE someone you'll never DO YOUR FKING MATH LIKE THIS.


Love is never ask for return. Adjust yourself and Accept Every part of him.




I'm not good at math break up and do what you want but don't sound like an innocence.
I feel sick and tired of hearing a self-center woman telling people how much effort you put in to a relationship but NOTHING ELSE.

I feel disgust for your 4句有感而發嘅說話.