BiscottiGelato

原帖由 B仔 於 2009-2-3 11:49 發表
最源始解決方法：默默等待，感動芳心，成虛而入，觀音兵法。

Just in case OP don't notice... B仔係 sarcasm intended o既.

Now is your best chance. If the other guy don't come back after a bit, the gal will feel lonely, sad, etc etc.~ 其如都唔洗教啦.

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原帖由 B仔 於 2009-2-3 12:59 發表
師主請三思。
觀音兵法，有機冇失，型像討好，隨獻恩謹，時機一到，美人就擒。

Every gal will tell you to be '觀音兵', be nice to her, be slave to her, blah blah blah. A hot gal (or decent girl) will get 觀音兵 at a dime a dozen. Do you just want to be another 觀音兵, be used and be dumped to the garbage can afterwards?
Understand that a friend or 觀音兵 is not what you want and you don't ever want to be classified as such. You need to be classified as a 'potential candidate'.

Do what you are best at and be you. You don't need to be particularly good or bad or whatever. Just be you and she can observe what kind of person you are day by day. Don't ever claim to be her 'friend' or anything that indicates plain friendship. Whenever you do something nice to her make sure you don't do it in a way that she'll take it for granted (aka. 觀音兵). Go in for the strike when you know she needs someone the most.

If in the end she don't like you, so be it.~ There are so many girls in the world and there are still tons of opportunities out there.

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原帖由 大檸樂 於 2009-2-3 20:03 發表


難到真係要做觀音兵？？ 唉　=\

Maybe when you know she 對你有好感, you can tell her that u like her, but u know she like sthat guy, and it's time for her to get a resolve or u will bail. I think that's pretty fair.

Or plain and simple, just encourage her to get a resolve. If she can get that dude back, sure, but if she can't why waste her own time? You can then slowly establish that you like her after she became 'single' emotionally.

Mind to share what age range that girl is? IMO different age girls think very differently. 18 vs 22 vs 26 vs 30+ all very diff. Maybe diff ppl of diff age group here can shed some tip on what the girl might think.

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原帖由 邊少 於 2009-2-3 21:59 發表


愛的替身好唔好Ｄ?

ouch... one way to do it i guess... whatever works and whatever floats your boart... even tho that just sounds really ouch...

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原帖由 B仔 於 2009-2-3 22:00 發表

唔理好醜，拿個頭籌最實際呀！

係就係, 但係只驚一做代替品, 以後都係代替品... 希望個女仔真係會 later change how she view you as, from 代替品 to the real deal la... afraid that at least that'll take quite a bit of time...

Since you already chose this route, all I can say is best of luck...

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原帖由 bearbear 於 2009-2-3 22:27 發表

I feel the same way.  To keep thinking what she is thinking and guessing what shes gonna do next is very stupid and childish.  The girl already know that you are interested in her, she is just takin ...

That's why I say don't be anything and be yourself law... its just that lots of ppl want suggest him to act as 朋友, 觀音兵, 代替品, etc etc... And if he ends up choosing to approach that way then all I can say it gd luck...

Just be yourself and strike at the right time... in fact, create 'the right time' yourself. Be bold, and if you fail, it's just a girl, not the world falling apart.

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原帖由 B仔 於 2009-2-4 11:31 發表

如果你唔靚仔，你會唔會執正D？
如果你知你脾氣衰，你會唔會收？
如果你知你性格唔夾，你會唔會就下條女嘅喜好？
冇得話做自己就做自己。乜都要西選過出嚟，TUM條女落踏架兄弟。
你試下完全做自己，睇下溝到女嗎？係咪？ ...

Um, you can say the above are just trying to emphasize your strength and don't show as much of your weakness, but it's still you.

I am just telling the OP don't try to be someone he is not. Even more so, don't try to become someone he don't want to be, so that the girl will categorize him as that. I'm not telling him to just live his life and do nothing, I'm telling him to not change his life and live around the girl and thinking that being a 'slave' and pleasing her in every way will get her heart. In the end just lose all the effort, time and become all hurt while getting nothing back.

You are trying to get someone to like you. But if you are no longer you, then who are you really trying to get the person to like?

Anyways, I think I get what you mean, and you probably get what I mean by this point, so does the OP. I guess just wait for 'good' news from the OP ba~

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I tell the OP don't 'do too much' (interms of pleasing, faking, etc) 姐. A lot of other people do these slaving, pleasing, faking, bluffing ba. The more they bluff the worse it gets afterwards law, that's why so much argument law...

女黐埋來就唔洗耍手段啦.... or maybe you mean 耍手段 to 耍走佢地

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原帖由 大檸樂 於 2009-2-4 18:31 發表
今日係學校同佢hang out咗一個鐘，都算ok,有講有笑，仲教佢做咗少少功課

oh... age < 20. 咁就真係 ark ark tum tum OK la... 唔洗諗咁多.... 總之要快, 唔好比佢 categorize as friend.

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原帖由 B仔 於 2009-2-5 11:56 發表

而家你都讚成呃呃[乙水][乙水]喇？ 呃靚妹，真係要咁架。 :p

< age 20, 女唔會太 evil, 男唔會呃得太盡. 唔洗太認真 i guess