| Humm......I think it really depends on what kinda mother she was and how she raise the kids. If you husband always respect her when he was young and always listen to what she said...suddenly she feels that her son has been "STOLEN" by some woman she might thinks that is the way to get her revenge that' what i think. I love my mom too but sometimes what she said is very very heart feeling....難頂 my mom was a single mother too but we have already discuss that in future if i want to..i can send her to old folks home so that she won't be left alone and have the same kinda of people around her so it can makes her feel like she is not alone otherwise when she is 80 and i am still 30 or 40 ...we will have a big generation gap. And yes maybe your problem is the Generation Gap lor....I have a friend her mom is only 18 yrs older than her.....she is married now and they live together happily without any problem. Age difference is also a big problem. Try to use the otherway around to communicate with her talk something that she likes and do somethign that she wants so that she can leave happily la!! GOOD LUCK! |