kaimui22

i personally don't 嗲 and it drives my husband crazy
he thinks girls should know how to 撒嬌 ...but it's just not me

i've also had guy friends ask me why i don't 嗲 or even try to talk in a cute voice...they think it would make me so much more attractive....ha..i talk in my normal voice normally and i'm not at all 溫柔

i dunno..i think back in university, i USED to be those girls who liked to 撒嬌, but after a while, I just found it tiring and unnecessary..

i guess the reason for me no longer wanting to 嗲 is because I got married...now my relationship is more like 親情 than 愛情..also, i can't imagine 嗲-ing my husband in front of my kid

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by the way, the guys I mention above are TWnese guys...they expect most girls to 嗲 or 撒嬌 naturally..because a lot of taiwanese girls are very 嗲

and...嗲 doesn't necessary mean 痴身
a girl can be independent without her bf..
but when her bf is around, she might use 嗲 to get what she wants...(eg, 哇~ 個包包好美啊... 哎喲﹐咁貴啊... babee...點算好啊~~~) <-- while wrapping arms around bf...

kaimui22

alc:
i can't stand it when I see those girls who fake 嗲..but SO MANY girls do it to get what they want....it's sad but that's the culture nowadays. A girl who cannot afford something might use their 嗲功  to get what they want....

but then again...i think it's okay for little girls to 嗲...but when I see girls (women) that have reached my age..i can't stand it..come on, you're old enough to earn enough to support yourself....please don't mis-use your 嗲 to get something that you can afford!

要嗲也要看本錢...

once you have a kid..the first year you don't even think about 愛情...it's sad but it's true. suddenly your world revolves around the baby and everything you do is to please/calm down the baby...so...it's hard to 嗲 your husband..

but then again, if you have a good babysitter, you can probably get away for a weekend or two for some romance...but then again, the getaway might all be passion and none of the 熱戀期嗲法