kaimui22

People are getting married later and older...because most people want to be financially secure before settling down and starting a family...so why should you feel pressured if you're not ready (emotionally and financially).

Don't feel pressured to do something you are not ready to do...otherwise you will regret and/or only feel lonely inside.

Ignore those around you who are pushing you to get married...especially those annoying relatives who ALWAYS ask...if you are happy the way you are now, then just take their words as 耳邊風.

kaimui22

but what about for girls that DON'T want to have kids or get married?

some women I know are happy the way they are...in their 30s and 40s and single. They can support themselves financially and are emotionally stable..they have no intentions on looking for someone to procreate...and they don't need someone to be a "partner". Some of these women live alone, with their parents or with other friends that are single.

But of course..if you MUST have kids in your life, you have to look at your biological clock...but nowadays, women have kids until they are past their 40s..so...if you have the money, you can have a kid when you're much older. But whether that is fair to the kids or not is another discussion...

kaimui22

你才26呢...跟"高齡產婦"還有一段距離..

而且我認識很多26-30台灣女生都還沒結婚
也沒有急著結婚
她們覺得還沒有過 35都還算OK
現在最重要是找到適合的人﹐肯定了對方﹐再說婚嫁的問題

父母跟親戚是一定會追問的
可是如果你現在覺得你跟你男朋友根本沒有到這個地步﹐就不應該為了滿足別人而急著結婚

其實你父母會問只是因為你們都到了一定的年紀﹐身邊的朋友也開始包孫子
才會開始問你什麼時候結婚

就好像你被問一樣﹐你的父母也被問吧

so, just take it easy..
but first thing...make sure your bf is the one you want to marry
if you're not sure or you don't think your bf is the want you want to marry..then..maybe..consider other possibilities lu~