BarF1

樹欲靜而風不息，子欲養而親不在 ... so true,  avoid arguing with your parents, never know when they are gone.

It really depends, my great grandmother is at a home, she NEEDS the care, my grandpa is at a daycare because of AD ... both in HK, when I visit my great grandmother, the atmosphere isn't something I will let my parent endure ... I wanna get the fxxx out in 15mins, I can't imagine living there ...  Its not the care, the facilities; I am sure they can be very good, but if I am physically able w.r.t my age, no way I am living in a home ...

But this is all talk, I am sure when the situation arise, the best choice isn't the most ideal, sensible or logical ...
What you want to do and what you can do doesn't always see eye to eye ...

[ 本帖最後由 BarF1 於 2008-1-27 01:59 編輯 ]