Many of my friends had their wedding in Minoru Chapel. There is no "place" for food there...
I had my wedding in golf club then I "have to" provide food (part of the package).
I think it depends on the wedding venue.
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I think it's really up to you, depending on your schedule of that day.
If the groom and his bestman came over to your place and play some games to "pickup the bride", I think may as well do the tea ceremony.