fibbi

我認為結婚之前應該傾下，了解下大家會點樣分擔家頭細務，例如，如果老婆煮飯嘅話，老公會唔會洗碗？ 邊個負責吸塵？女嘅會唔會想男方每次去完廁所都放翻塊板落嚟等等。講清楚婚後就不會有咁多誤會啦

fibbi

有好多時就係因為你認為我做，我認為你做，好多好似小事，積少成多，就會多咗拗撬。
大家拍拖嘅時候就係互相認識對方（主要係性格上），睇下夾唔夾，當然係認為夾嘅先會結婚，咁婚後又何來嫁錯／娶錯，拗撬通常都係來自啲好瑣碎嘅事，同埋錢 。或者係生活習慣唔同，所以咪要了解下啲習慣，同埋期望囉。

[ 本帖最後由 fibbi 於 2009-3-4 12:28 編輯 ]

fibbi

原帖由 kayllis 於 2009-3-4 12:20 發表
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i dont mean the ones you have mentioned is not important.. but in case if the couples couldnt find a solution... in worse case they can just hire a maid or something..=P

It's easier to say "hire a maid" to do housework than actually "hire a maid". Do you know the cost of the "maid" here? Can the couple afford the maid? It's not that easy, after paying mortgage, all household expense...not even mention the cost of kid (if there is any... If it's as easy as in HK (many family with Philipinno/Indonesian maid) life would be much easier here...

fibbi

原帖由 Purpleheart 於 2009-3-4 12:21 發表
從統計結果看來, 男人就算知道娶錯妻都唔會離婚.....原因是什麼呢?

女人覺得自己嫁錯郎就離婚, 是不是因為現今的女性都很理智呢?

Any source of this statistics? I am actually quite surprise to see this. I don't think woman is that easy to say "divorce" as well.

fibbi

原帖由 邊少 於 2009-3-4 12:54 發表
responsibility
which men usually have in mind if he is a good man
but good women dont need to have responsibility
好女人可以好任性唔理後果
好男人一定想有responsibility

邊少 must be a guy....
"好女人可以好任性唔理後果" --> Then that woman is certainly not "good woman".