chunsh

講都徙氣~
男人大部份都唔係有心聽妳講野。佢有自己既諗法，就係個套架喇~ 妳講完，佢地都冇心"jon"載~ men are too self-centered. (i've learned to giveup the "hinting" method years ago) sometimes they don't even know that you told them something specifically, or that you already directly answered their questions.  they always want/try to understand, but their minds involuntarily puts themselves in priority.

hhaha, "講都徙氣"? yeah, men are straight mind, but if u just keep thinking you, the lady, are absolutely correct and just blame the men for everything, then good luck to your relationship.

and, who doesnt put him/herself in priority in this planet?

[ 本帖最後由 chunsh 於 2007-12-17 02:34 編輯 ]

chunsh

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2007-12-17 10:23 發表 haha...
then don't tell girls that you "love" them when you cannot sacrafice yourself for your other half guys... don't tell us stuff like (for ex) that "working hard" is for "our/family's future" when it's for yourself to retire in "your future"....etc etc~ i guess for some guys... gfs/wives are just for survival - passing down your genes~

are u giving comment about my post?
sorry I dun quite get what u are trying to say

by the way, if not working hard, and if the parents of the couple are not rich, where is the $$ come from to support the family (e.g. $$ for marry party, new apartment, insurance, etc....)??