Hi 匿名, before you come here to ask a question, you already have the answer in your subconscious mind. (Lots of women come and ask me questions about their love problems, and I told them the same.) I am just a mirror which lets you see clearly what yourself are thinking.
What you want is to end the cold war right now. There is nothing wrong to follow your heart. However, you have no right to change someone's personality - any person, even if it is your boyfriend. You won't succeed in changing him anyway, no matter how hard you try. Take him as a whole person if you love him. If not, you have every right to leave him and go for greener pastures (but I know you don't have the courage to do so). |