Alcoholic

this question is too vague. asking a question like this probably means you don't even know who the hell you're liking right now (or what sort of men you're interested in) because you don't know how you need to act in order to even just grab his attention.

& if you need to act  in order to get the guy that you like, then he doesn't even like the real you. so why bother? just wait for guys to come chase you. don't be cheap about yourself

Alcoholic

cooking a good meal
= don't do stupid extra things like that until he's officially your man. that's what i call 送上門.

he likes me too + not ready for relationship + he's playing around
= he's just flirting

if you really want him that much, then flirt back SKILLFULLY.

skillfully as in:
1. do not express yourself as a fast food meal for him to "chew 完鬆"
2. in a way that you know he'll be attracted/hooked & wants more

if you do not know how to do it skillfully, as i said before --> you don't know him enough to 觸摸 his 死穴.

界女界仔101:
know your target, aim within it
if he's too high level for you, you'll just end up crashing your own heart at a brick wall