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IMO 嗲得inappropriate is when:
- it seems like the chick is more 發姣 than 嗲
- 嗲 in order to show off (especially in public)
- 嗲男仔in order to 痴身
- 嗲 purposely, not naturally to show your affection to your man

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原帖由 myversa 於 2008-3-26 08:12 AM 發表
One of the requirement for Mamasan's livestock?

smart!
of course!
i don't recruit girls that lacks 吸引力 & needs to desperately 引/嗲仔
蝕本生意我唔做~

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i think 嗲 is more or less rigged into females.
hmmm... i think 嗲 can be 後天 teachable. but as we all know, alot of girls cannot 嗲 skillfully & effectively.

from the topic starter's question, i think 嗲 & 痴身 is related. you don't need to be 痴身 when you 嗲 . but think of it this way: you 嗲  because you wanna 痴情, which causes 痴身

i think a more correct way to say, rather than "男仔喜歡自己女朋友嗲" is "男仔喜歡自己女朋友溫柔". but often, 溫柔 is mainly composed of 嗲...but unfortunately, 嗲 is to 痴身. but "男仔唔喜歡自己女朋友痴身"

男人好複雜&犯賤

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原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-3-26 08:45 AM 發表


I like 痴身 girls wor...

but don't you find them too needy???
like even as a girl myself, when i see 痴身, unappropriately 嗲, needy girls that requires LOTS of attention, i shiver & find them as a humiliating sight.

another type of 嗲 that i CANNOT take is when they try to ACT cute.
i have seen some true cute action/thinking girls, and i honestly think they're cute (note that cute is NOT equivilent to LOW B/dumb/stupid). but most of the ones i see are FAKED cute & it drives me nuts. like...damn, are you really THAT desperate to please your man? get a life.

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原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-3-26 09:19 AM 發表
Yeah, I don't like girls trying to act cute too.

But, I think if her target(s) buy it, then she wins.
And surprisingly, most of the time, I see the guy(s) enjoy it...

guys only buy 嗲 during 熱戀期 because guys like the feeling of satisfaction when his target 嗲, which to them = chance & success rate

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原帖由 kaimui22 於 2008-3-26 09:22 AM 發表
and...嗲 doesn't necessary mean 痴身
a girl can be independent without her bf..
but when her bf is around, she might use 嗲 to get what she wants...(eg, 哇~ 個包包好美啊... 哎喲﹐咁貴啊... babee...點算好啊~~~) <-- while wrapping arms around bf...

HAHAHAHHAHAAHA
i agree! especially some TW girls & some honger girls are so 嗲!
and this example that you gave... is a type of what i call fake 嗲!

hmm...
i still 嗲  my hubby geh~ cus i still feel the 愛情. & i 嗲 in a way that it's my personality & i'm not faking it or trying to get something out of it. it makes my hubby laugh. of course, i'm not 嗲 consistently lah. it's just when i feel like it, & from my heart.

but i worry after i poop out a kid, then this type of happy 2-people-world will not exist anymore, because as you say, you can't/don't want to 嗲 in front of your kid.

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kaimui:
exactly!
i enjoy it much more when i buy my expensive sh!t with my own money. i only let my hubby buy me expensive things for special occasions only if at that time i really have my mind set on buying something i like which happens to be expensive.

girls who 嗲 to get items to me is CHEAP & they're only a 貨 that can be leased using money & materialism. girls who 嗲 in hope of strapping down their man to me is an unattractive asset (as you say, 要嗲也要看本錢) that only relies on 嗲 in order to keep the relationship running.

hmm... you're doing a GREAT job of scaring me how having a baby will change various ways of your love life

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原帖由 MoiRhapsody 於 2008-3-26 10:12 AM 發表
曾經看過一篇文章說「媚」。
說媚有三個層次：貓、狸、狐。
貓就是要主動向人撒撒嬌，你才會注意：喔，這裏有隻貓。
狸就是愛理不理的，站在那裏，你自然的就會看：喂！那裏有隻狸！！
狐可不得了，她什麼都不用做，你看見她，什麼也不用說，就跟 ...

好似講都所有女人都係衰
貓 = 嗲
狸 = 酤
狐 = 姣

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AD,
撒嬌 & 嗲 to me is the same thing i THINK. i'd take it as 嗲 = slang word for 撒嬌.
i don't 撒嬌 to ask parents to buy me things. actually, i don't ask parents to buy me things. even if i do, i pay them back. but i do admit i will 嗲 my mom sometimes...like sometimes when we go out, i like to "Q" her arms & walk in the mall etc. or other times 嗲 just like a funny action sort of thing/communication. but i 嗲  her cus i super super sek my mom.

sorry, i think i type wrong word 酤... i meant as in "cool"...you know, how some tw chinese words neh~

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AD,
AHAHAHHAHAHAA
嗲&姣 LMAO
i guess (in my books at least) 嗲 is more innocence, showing TRUE affection. whereas 姣 is pretty self explanatory.
hmmm... so i think alot of girls now wants to 嗲, but instead steps over the line & pushes towards 姣

when i Q my mom's arms, i feel fine. cus the way that my family runs, we're very close. i only 拖 my mom when there's alot of people & i don't want people to bump into or push my mom

hmm... i think i 嗲 my hubby enough. cus to him & infront of him, i'm just a big big kid. we do enough stupid kiddy things together that it would honestly be too embarassing to tell here

however, at different situations, i'm not 嗲 at all. especially infront of random guys or guy friends (without my hubby around), you won't be able to tell that i know how to 嗲