Alcoholic

如果你係一個正常人（有基本禮儀，態度隨和）我覺得黎樣野冇得學。
好多時，就算你對人好，冇機心，人緣好，有D人都會睇你唔順眼，因為佢地妒忌人緣好, out-going popular既人。
相反，如果你選擇做一個nobody, 又會有D人覺得你怪，爛神祕，太靜，唔入群。
所以人緣好唔好，睇下你同個個人夾唔夾架姐~
每個人個性不同，滿足唔到所有人既。所謂人緣好與唔好is very subjective.

我覺得（& 我自己對人既態度）: 有禮貌，凡事保持友善態度，對得起自己，真誠待人已經夠~ 我最憎恨虛偽，不坦誠，以貌取人(including people who don't know you well enough to make comments about you)，或冇料但係擺出一副不可一世既attitude既人。對黎幾種人我自問真係唔夾。

同男性friend D,冇咩問題丫~ 大概可能男仔通常冇咁婆媽，有個句講個句，有義氣，夠爽，冇D女人咁陰濕心病掛~ 好事黎既！

and i think that keeping my social circle small is good. less complicated. more real & with heart.
also, i'm very picky about "classifying my friends". i'm friendly, out going enough, but i'm definitely not the type that i call everyone that i know "my friends". basically, all the people that i know, i have this kind of catagory to catagorize my social relationship with that person:
- acquaintences (people that i know their name and only know less than 5 personal facts about them, Vice Versa)
- knowledge-able friends (people that are friendly, but no in-depth conversations & facts sharing)
- friends (people that i chill with, like, trust, have good conversations & good times)
- good friends (people that i trust alot, knows each other's personal thoughts & info)
- best friends till death do us part (completely understanding & accepting each other's personalities, time & distance will not do us part)

[ 本帖最後由 Alcoholic 於 2008-4-16 01:11 編輯 ]

Alcoholic

Twin,
i'm talking about this generally...

i used to be an out cast
thus, i tried to change & be out going

but either way, i concluded that it won't make you happy unless you're being your true self and be whatever you feel like at that moment.

i think that as long as you don't have an attitude or communication problems with lack of manners & respect, you are fine the way you are.

the point that i'm trying to make is that: you can't satisfied people. be yourself, and your true compatible friends will eventually come into your life and make a good strong relationship where differences are appreciated & accepted.

to me Twin, you have a very good heart & a kind personality. as i gotten to know you, i realize that you're more shy and less brave than i anticipated from knowing you from your posts you treat your friends real, with heart, and knows how to appreciate/treasure your friends for each kind deed & happy moments. honestly, just by looking at you, you nowhere look b!tchy/cocky at all. being with you is comfortable, & makes me feel secure speaking my private thoughts to share with you. i love you lots!

Alcoholic

原帖由 utopia 於 2008-4-16 11:56 AM 發表
I understand your good and bad but overall, I still love your goods more than bad kakakaka.

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