Alcoholic

che~ my hubby and i have COMPLETELY different hobbies. so what's the problem? we socialize with each other's friends, we do things together or with each other friends. but when it comes to hobby... you can't force it, and we're happy for our differences.
- if he's reading, it's not like i'll get a book & read together quietly
- if he's going to watch a movie that i'm really not interested in, then i'll just ask him to go alone or find some friends or find my siblings to go with him
- if i'm hitting a strip club with my Twin & friends, & go drink/fish afterwards, it's not like he'll join.
if you can't accept each other's differences & respect each other's hobbies, then why the fcuk bother getting married right?
besides, there are many reasons for the wife not showing up at the gatherings. women FEELS stuff. if she doesn't feeling like going, for different reasons each time, then too bad. alot of C9's ask my mom to go gathering la. whether my mom is free or not, she doesnt like chillin with those C9's because it's so loud & so ma-fan, so many drama, & rumors. so... my mom just interact with my aunt, or 5 other different aunties. no problem with that ga wor.