講都徙氣~
男人大部份都唔係有心聽妳講野。佢有自己既諗法,就係個套架喇~ 妳講完,佢地都冇心"jon"載~ men are too self-centered. (i've learned to giveup the "hinting" method years ago) sometimes they don't even know that you told them something specifically, or that you already directly answered their questions. they always want/try to understand, but their minds involuntarily puts themselves in priority.
haha...
then don't tell girls that you "love" them when you cannot sacrafice yourself for your other half guys... don't tell us stuff like (for ex) that "working hard" is for "our/family's future" when it's for yourself to retire in "your future"....etc etc~ i guess for some guys... gfs/wives are just for survival - passing down your genes~
CWong,
maybe... i'm the one that's thinking of another guy that's why i don't acknowledge his effort in trying to understand? actually i think some guys try hard, but they just don't learn from their mistakes, even if you tell them in-their-face the answer/solution to how to avoid the misunderstandings.