and as they age, they panic , & leech onto some poor unfortunate souls, & push them on the marriage train.
well, if the guy is soft heart, gum mai succeed & lucky lor.
if not, then those old women just pushes the guys to their very own younger competitors
recently, i've seen 2 of my guy friends in this situation...HAHAHA... the only thing i can say to them is: ho mix ng mix a 18, mix a 28+.... rofl
they make sure you have a decent job, have a car, pay the bills, pay all the dinners & eat outs, buy them expensive gifts, change your lifestyle for them, have incentive for family, kids, most importantly MARRIAGE.
and the fact is that most of these old women are capable of supporting themselves. yet, they find desperately look for a mate, regardless if they love or not... as long as they can get married. i look down & dis these ridiculously independent but lack of confidence women. it's not something that you must go with the flow, you old ho's...
if you need to "sheung tai", you mind as well should lock yourself up in the tiny crack next to your stove & make yourself comfy there for the rest of yourlife