Alcoholic

i would say 2 solutions:
-either time to wash it away for good
-time to regain the trust with prove

Alcoholic

she cheated, i think there's SOME chance of forgiving...for the sake of love.

BUT she back stabbed you, imo, i think you should just stand firm & dump her. 唔好講佢係你條女咁嚴重喇，就算basic d既關係，作為一個朋友，都唔會係你背後poke你啦。。。可防佢係係你條女~

as for her "personal problems"... depending how old you & her are, and how long you've been with her... you should know clear whether or not those problems will eventually be resolved~ cus' you know her well enough by now to make that judgement...

(but on the side: JD...?!?! for your birthday?!?! did she wanna get you drunk enough so you won't find out she cheated & back stabbed?   )

Alcoholic

ok...悔氣說話,講完就算。
個條女D怨氣鑊鑊都寫上blog比大擺人睇。。。
咁難為佢，就唔好為你而做啦~
做得唔滿意，都唔係用心你幫你做啦~
唔用心，佢又點真心鍾意/愛你呀?

besides, if she doesn't "feel" for those "comments" anymore...the fact is: at the time she wrote it, she DID FEEL... and when she wrote it, she was still with YOU. <-- enough said?

about being 賤...
of course, you have more than enough reason to be 賤格。
but to me, why do you wanna waste YOUR time to 報仇? you only revenge when you still care for that person, & doing so will just reveil your weakness. to me, it shows that YOU are the loser. the best revenge is to move on, regain your dignity & confidence, & get that b!tch out of your life as if she was just some dirty newspaper that was delivered to your doorstep... 份報紙又污糟，又睇完，又舊，咪撇甩佢囉~

[ 本帖最後由 Alcoholic 於 2007-12-18 21:56 編輯 ]

Alcoholic

Mr. Lik,
hmm... to me, if i have nothing better to do, i would focus on encountering a new girl.
even if you take the girl back for further exploiting... in the eyes of other people, you are still a fool. why? 1st of all, she cheated, you take her back? are you a man? 2ndly, maybe she's not a virgin anymore (i don't mind sex before marriage), but after her letting other guys screw her while you screwed her simultaneously  before... man, then you deserve that big huge green hat for taking back a cheap used whore~ if she comes back begging after cheating, she is one 賤 b!tch to me too. the only way to be a 賤 guy is from the start of the relationship, treat your gf 賤.

Pooner,
if you decide to break it, even if you guys knew for a long time... imo, i think it's wiser to not keep contact for a while at least. let you rethink it, stay firm on your decision. let her think it over...IF she really will smarten up. when things are calmer, then decide if you guys can still remain friends, or reconsider a 2nd chance if you feel that you still love her.

Alcoholic

pooner,
if you still have faith in her, then make it less complicated: just take her back and you will know. if you can't really let go & keeping in contact with her is so tempting... then you mind as well make it clear to her it's one last chance then. as a man, you cannot be so 婆媽

Mr. 賤力
i thought it was more convenient to take it out on random girls that送上門 ... i guess you don't get that kind of cheap water fish that swims up to you? that's why you need to take it out on dead fish...??   i thought the real 賤 guys are the ones that you don't even know that they're 賤 all along until the second that they break up with you.... the type where "you die jor, still don't know what killed you" type of 賤.

Alcoholic

pooner:
  
hahahaha

Alcoholic

Mr. Lik,
In Pooner's case, i think his ex/gf not neccessary 送上門. the way i see it is, she is not willing to commit or input into the relationship...HOWEVER, she doesn't want to give up the service that Pooner provides her.

送上門 = delivery WILLINGLY to guys of any status (attached/single) to satisfy the guy for nothing asked in return.

of course, i agree with you that Pooner should just leave the girl for good... but since he is so unsure & still have faith & is optimistic...mind as well blindfold himself one last time & pray for the best before he jumps off the cliff right?

now now... i thought you don't even have time to go out & cut babes! let's go out & cut some together... let's see if mama-Alc can out-cut Mr. Lik

PS: my daughters are pretty pricy ga... this past sat, 3 of my most prestige daughters cut a tab of 4 digits CAD off of some dudes... not everyone can afford to enjoy the pleasure of their company to have a meal with them ga~ of course, my daughters are not just for looks... not only they look smokin, but they can cook, do housework, & have a professional job ga

what you pay is what you get guys...
prettier gf...higher maintainence~

[ 本帖最後由 Alcoholic 於 2007-12-19 16:13 編輯 ]

Alcoholic

pooner,

hahaha
you've been told that she wants to dump you AND on her blog she plans to keep you until after the big days?! LOL maybe you should learn to be 賤格like her...