Alcoholic

work it smoothly, keeping it natural & discreet~
chat it up, with topics unrelated to work.
the point is, you're in the office but you need to move things outside of work environment.
make use of breaks... ex: coffee breaks are the best to invite her to come along~ if you have something good, make sure you go over and give her some (ex: snacks, candy, coupons whatever etc etc etc)
coffee break can lead to lunch together...& eventually, dinner or chillin out together outside working hours.
but as usual, the most important thing is to gather as much info as possible on the target. that way, you can sin keep things going.
also, if you can make her happy, she will also visit you rather than just coming by to say hi to your boss. you want to draw her to your desk...

Alcoholic

boss' are NEVER to be trusted in a work place
going through your boss to dig up the girl? totally suicidal.

Alcoholic

原帖由 utopia 於 2007-12-20 04:46 PM 發表
Also, I have a bad feeling that how come she is a shy type and very close to your boss? Might be a chance that they are already hooked  

good one Twin!!! LOL
becareful Mr. Lik!!! wakakakaka

Alcoholic

we already told you the first step is to casually ask her to come along for coffee break lor!

Alcoholic

Mr. Lik
no fixed time for coffee break is fine...
u gotta CHARM her to make time for YOUR break... (but most likely the VS version   )

Alcoholic

company event planning, there's usually a committee that does it. it's not like you can just jump in, & jump in with her to participate. which, is still related to work... i'm sure when you're chasing a girl, the girl does not wanna work anymore than she does when Mr. Lik says that girl's department is busy too.

secret santa...
first of all, you need enough people to participate
2ndly, you need all those people willing to cheat with you so that YOU get to be the one to be HER secret santa.

唔得啦~ total failure ideas

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原帖由 utopia 於 2007-12-22 12:39 PM 發表
Getting msn is a good point too. I don't mind giving out my msn but not my phone # because if I don't like that guy I can put him on my ignore list or simply answer him only when I'm bored at work

second this.
some guys, they are neither bees or KYB...they're simply my entertainment

Alcoholic

but that is not an option for Mr. Lik
he says he has absolutely NO TIME for relationship...
so maybe this whole chasing coworker thing is just here to satisfy his imaginary self...planning for if one day he really has time even chase a girl, or eventually have a gf...

but i can tell you... being on event planning committee is VERY time consuming. when you have so much to coordinate, i don't even think you'll have time to use to mix the girl. so imo, it's still not the way to go.

however, PARTICIPATING in the event & asking the girl to go would me more realistic. but since, they can't even have a coffee break together, or have no time to walk over to her department to ask her for coffee... i doubt that will happen either

Alcoholic

Mr. Lik,

she has no time + you have no time = please pop your little brain fart la