shutterbug

Is this a planned pregnacy?  You don't sound like it is....

You listed 4 things that you fear about.
1) This one you can't avoid and it's too early to think about that now, so save it for later
2) You need to talk to your partner and to get assurance from him, more communication
3) Also too early to think about this, you might want to take a course later and talk to LOTS of moms to get experience
4) This is the most important right now IMO, health is #1 priority!  Find out what you should/can do/eat.  Lots of resources on the web!

good luck!

[ 本帖最後由 shutterbug 於 2008-4-23 10:06 編輯 ]

shutterbug

first, congrats and glad to hear from you again

honestly, I don't think raising an infant costs that much besides daycare, but sounds like you will not need daycare so just food, diaper, etc won't cost that much

private school takes up a big chunk of money too if you decide you'll go for that route

the financial burden comes when they reach 14 years and onwards...