I was like "what the hell......" when I heard one mid-woman said that she was so happy to date with the guy who is much younger than her but later on she chose to end the relationship because she thinks that guy dont know how to plan the future and feeling not stable.
come on, how many male creature(ok, man) around at the end of 1X or the beginning of 20-ish know / sure about how to plan their future stable life? want a man that is very romantic and give u a feeling of safety and stable (yet single!!) AT THE SAME TIME????
Sure, get one from comics/ idol drama/novels or ..... dream
In many cases, romantic needs passion, but as we grow up, we lost passion, because we always need to stay calm, work hard and being logical so that we can support our lives, pay our bills,............
woman becomes blind when she falls in love, so she likes the romantic part of a young guy. but after she wake-up, she comes back to the real world and wants a stable guy
For most guys I know .. when they want to chase/date/whatever a girl, they may "boil water"about their income, car, education, bank account ... etc ......
And for gals I know .. when they want to "fish" some guys .. then they may lie about their age .. figure .. HISTORY ... even faces .. etc ..
So, doesn't matter men or women.... "CATCH ME IF YOU CAN!! "