不看後悔一世哦

Littleprince

萍果樹的寓言。。。

文章很感動我﹐不知你是否有同感﹖

shutterbug

I don't mean anything bad but...

the problem is...not every parent is like this tree lei....

Littleprince

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2007-12-8 22:57 發表
I don't mean anything bad but...

the problem is...not every parent is like this tree lei....

但父母都總是給最好的他們的小孩的﹐這是天性。。。當然﹐報上也記載喪盡天良的父母弒子虐子﹐畢竟這只是少數。。。大部份父母都愛子女愛得無微不至﹐我想﹐這大概是因為子女就好像他們自己的迷你版﹐愛子女等於愛他們自己吧。。。

有沒有父母可以分享一下﹐你們的心態是這樣嗎﹖

tweety

I wish my parents like that tree too..

I moved out since I was young.. 'cuz of they don't like to live with my brother and me.. how sad?? my brother move back to hk..

I just move out with my fds..

I tried to talk with them.. and they never listen.. they are too busy going out with their fds.. .. but not us..

even I tried to nice to them .. go out with them every wkend for lunch or dinner or something.. they never respect what I did to them... they always ask for more....

they don't care what we doing or sick or anything at all.. but they care their social fds..

they never enough.... they always ask me for more.. but they never ask my brother.. 'cuz of he's in hk.. my brother just ignore them...

huh..

[ 本帖最後由 tweety 於 2007-12-9 22:15 編輯 ]

Littleprince

原帖由 tweety 於 2007-12-9 22:14 發表
I wish my parents like that tree too..

I moved out since I was young.. 'cuz of they don't like to live with my brother and me.. how sad?? my brother move back to hk..

I just move out with my fds.. ...

sigh... feel so sad for you... I never know there are parents like that...

shutterbug

sigh... feel so sad for you... I never know there are parents like that...

there are worse parents than that...I guess you haven't met one yet...

I think it's not rare to have a bad parent...on the other hand, it's very rare to have a parent like this tree...

ricrick

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2007-12-10 09:00 發表

there are worse parents than that...I guess you haven't met one yet...

I think it's not rare to have a bad parent...on the other hand, it's very rare to have a parent like this tree...

Well, can u act like the tree if u are a parent? i don't think i can law..
if i am a parent, i won't hope my children will give me any return.. but i will only hope they won't bring me any trouble when they become adults

[ 本帖最後由 ricrick 於 2007-12-11 02:53 編輯 ]

myversa

陌生人請一碗麵，我都那麼感激，而我媽一個人辛苦地養我也煮了二十多年的麵和飯給我吃，我怎麼沒有感激她呢？．．．．。別人給予一點小惠你就「感激不盡」，卻對親人，父母的一輩子恩情「視而不見」！

那晚，佳芬跟媽媽吵架之後什麼都沒帶，就隻身往外跑。可是，走了一段路，佳芬發現，她身上竟然一毛都沒帶，連打電話銅板也沒有！

她走著走著肚子餓了，看到前面有個麵攤，香噴噴的，好想吃！可是，她沒錢！

過一陣子後，麵攤老闆看到佳芬還站在那邊，久久沒離去，就問：「小姐，請問妳是不是要吃麵？」

「可是．．．可是我忘了帶錢．．」佳芬不好意思地回答。

麵攤老闆熱心地說：「沒關係，我可以請妳吃ㄚ！」「來，我下碗餛飩麵給妳吃！」
不久，老闆端來麵和一些小菜。佳芬吃了幾口，竟然掉下眼淚來。「小姐，妳怎麼ㄌㄚ？」老闆問。

「沒有啦，我只是很感激！」佳芬擦著淚水，對老闆說道：「你是陌生人，我們又不認識，只不過在路上看到我，就對我這麼好，願意煮麵給我吃！可是．．．我自己的媽媽，我跟她吵架，她竟然把我趕出來，還叫我不要再回去！．．．你是陌生人都能對我這麼好，而我自己的媽媽，竟然對我這麼絕情！．．．」

老闆聽了，委婉地說道：「小姐啊，妳這麼會這樣想呢！妳想想看我不過煮一碗麵給妳吃，妳就這麼感激我，那妳自己媽媽，煮了十多年的麵和飯給妳吃，妳怎麼不會感激她呢？妳怎麼還要跟她吵架?」

佳芬一聽，整個人楞住了！

是啊！陌生人的一碗麵，我都那麼感激，而我媽一個人辛苦地養我也煮了二十多年的麵和飯給我吃，我怎麼沒有感激她呢？．．．．

而且，只為了小小的事，就和媽媽大吵一架。匆匆吃完麵後，佳芬鼓起勇氣，往家的方向走，她好想真心地對媽說：「媽，對不起，我錯了！」

當佳芬走到家巷口時，看到疲憊、著急的母親，已經在四處地張望.........

看到佳芬時，媽媽就先開口說：「阿芬啦，趕快回去吧！我飯都已經煮好，妳再不趕快回去吃，菜都涼了！」

此時，佳芬的眼淚，又不爭氣地掉了下來！

有時候，我們會對別人給予小惠「感激不盡」，卻對親人，父母的一輩子恩情「視而不見」！

如果您收到別人分享給您的好文章，不要吝嗇，您也可以繼續分享給好友，請別忘我這一份喔。

ricrick

這是因為父母前世欠了你，你是來追債，他們是要還一世
如你借錢給別人，別人還錢給你，你會感激他嗎？當然不會，還會說：「下期記住早D還啊！」

shutterbug

原帖由 ricrick 於 2007-12-11 22:44 發表
這是因為父母前世欠了你，你是來追債，他們是要還一世
如你借錢給別人，別人還錢給你，你會感激他嗎？當然不會，還會說：「下期記住早D還啊！」 ...

is it because we have this kind of kids so hence bad parents?