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mollinbaggio

今日係麗晶廣場Food Court食完飯林住走,隔離台個阿叔開口講:阿叔,你份報紙唔要呀?我話:我唔係阿叔,你咁無禮貌你自己去買啦! 我邊忽似阿叔? 你要問人羅報紙都好聲好氣d!我睇落都係得25 26.我係唔係奉止要比你?
       你地有無試過亂比人叫老晒?

biggie

我睇落都係得25 26
are you sure you really look that young?

somewhereintime

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  I don't mind if they offer me  Senior Discount at the restaurants or shops.

  Quite often they charge me for Senior coffee
   After all, I'm only 28+29

tiffiant

its just your look, your fate

Catpiano

Just like many C9, they are C9, but won't accept that they are C9 ..

Put it this way, no matter what age, and how old .. when you go street market in HK .. they call everyone:  "Handsome boy, Pretty girl " .. but are they? NO ..

Some of my friends .. they will be so excited when people call them "pretty girl" .. but they dont know that is just they way they call ...

Well, I am over 30 .. can't stop people calling me 阿叔 la...

somewhereintime

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    Too young to be call 阿叔 when you are only 30

sheep

今日係麗晶廣場Food Court食完飯林住走,隔離台個阿叔開口講:阿叔,你份報紙唔要呀?我話:我唔係阿叔,你咁無禮 ...
mollinbaggio 發表於 2011-3-8 23:47

    Food Court 阿叔?

Catpiano

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    Too young to be call 阿叔 when you are only 30
somewhereintime 發表於 2011-3-9 08:33

My brother has became 叔叔 since 19 la..

Once married--> C9

27/28 not married, people call them "mid women" ..

I think 30 and up .. call 阿叔 is ok ..

I know "uncle" sounds better then 阿叔 .. but .. same thing la..

聖德納撒

弟兄﹐我幫你做一個分析。

首先從心理學既方向﹐中立地去了解﹐果位人兄既目的係要你份報紙﹐而唔係去利用份報紙而去踩低你既外表﹔咁樣做對佢係明顯無好處既。

你對佢既指控係你認為對方無禮貌。好﹐我地又嘗試下細心去分析下佢呢句說話。"阿叔
,你份報紙唔要呀?" 最無禮貌既說話應該係大聲喝問你﹐"唔要﹖"

但佢加個助語詞令雙方距離更近﹐唔要呀?

又加個名詞令到佢既目的更加清晰﹐報紙唔要呀?

又加個代名詞令到令到你﹐明白佢知道﹐你先係報紙既主人﹐你份報紙唔要呀?

到最後﹐佢既童年成長可能有人教過佢同人溝通要先叫人﹐所以佢先打量閣下既外表與行為而比你一個稱號﹐阿叔,你份報紙唔要呀?

總括離講﹐你對佢(無禮貌)既指控並唔存在。

其實﹐陌生人對閣下既一個稱呼係無價值既﹐不如一笑置之。一個人只要有自信﹐其他小人對你既褒貶係無影響既

Catpiano

Yeah ....  just  一個稱號 ..

Unless you are a man, and someone call you "madam" .. otherwise, no hurt feeling la..

^_^