Jennie

The traditional model works fine in my family. I retired early at the age of 42. From then on I relied on my hubby for everything. I paid the grocery and my 'personal' bills from our joint account . He never questions how much I spend each month.

sko

I'd rather the other way around: give all my money to my future husband so I don't have to deal with the numbers and headaches.

fibbi

回復 9# 快樂牛郎

The reply with "model" is just to respond your statement "why woman like to take $ from guys".
I am just saying it's the traditional way how things work. It's not really to do w/ the original question.

ayako

The traditional model works fine in my family. I retired early at the age of 42. From then on I reli ...
Jennie 發表於 2012-8-10 10:15

你好呀~ 謝謝你的回應呢~
我好希望睇到多d 呢類型既回應, 一來代表traditional model 係work 的, 二來見到幸福小家庭的存在, 都是開心的~

stevoo

"比家用" 係考對方"打釜頭" 功力的玩意!

fibbi

回復 8# ayako


    我明你個問題嘅point。多＄嘅男人有好大機會身痕。
但係，我覺得做工做人都好都要有buffer。當收入得8000嘅時候可能會猛猛緊，就算俾哂你都係咁話啦。

如果個問題係，大家都月入十萬。一個俾20%，一個俾80%，咁就梗係揀俾多%嗰個啦。

fibbi

I'd rather the other way around: give all my money to my future husband so I don't have to deal with ...
sko 發表於 2012-8-10 10:22

    呢個世界唔係再好似以前咁單純啦：承諾，婚姻唔擔保一定會一生一世，所以對自己點都要有啲保障，一定要有養活自己嘅能力。俾哂啲＄人就唔係好掂啦。

ricrick

回復 5# 快樂牛郎

男人比錢好多時看"實際情況需要"，好少用愛的程度來衡量多少及掛勾
如你不需要錢，他不給你錢也十分愛你，同樣，給你錢也不代表很愛你

我認為比例是無關系，是錢多錢少的問題
如我得甘少，比哂你真係無所謂
如女的知慳識儉的識儲錢，我吾介意全數比女人管，因為我確是大洗

ayako

呢個世界唔係再好似以前咁單純啦：承諾，婚姻唔擔保一定會一生一世，所以對自己點都要有啲保障，一 ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-8-10 10:58

咁係因為sko 信佢未來情人o者... 即使最終會背叛, 當初仍然肯去信, 都係一份好高尚既情操...
要講得出一個信字, 呢個年代都唔易....

B2L2

Obvious pick is the 2nd man la.  Tough life v.s. easier life.

Off-topic.  Between the two of us, we don't have such thing as 比家用.  We both put money into the joint account which will be used for all expense, family + personal spending are both from there.  I found no problem with this.  However, my wife sometime say she feel bad in using the joint account for those "unusual big $$$" personal spending and she prefer to use her personal account which makes her feel happier.  Modern women, I think.