情人的意義

ayako

想找一個怎樣的情人?
答案很簡單: 懂得愛就夠.
其他所謂條件, 一切多餘.

甚麼外表地位權勢財力學識家底,
要考慮這些的人,
到底你是想要一個情人,
還是想要提款機/性伴侶/圖書館/萬能維修員/私人秘書/管家/司機/傭人?

情人的身份, 不是只要提供愛就足夠了嗎?

好好的愛一個人, 也不是人人都做得到的.
要懂得去愛, 愛得對方感覺舒服, 絕對不是一件易事.

其中品行修養這一環, 在戀愛中一定瞞不到對手.
難道你認為少一點耐性的人, 情緒智商低一點的人,
思想未夠成熟的人, 人情世故欠奉的人,
可守得住一段恆久的關係?

要是一個人修養不壞,
你會擔心他不能在職場上好好表現出來?
或會不擅處理其他日常大小事務?

任何知識類技巧類的事情都可在書中在網上找到答案,
但說到待人處世, 就得看那人的修為.
修行高的人, 對待情事也必定處理得宜.

懂得去愛, 已是一個好情人, 為何還有他求?

Quest

very deep thoughts....

*applause*

Q.

ayako

very deep thoughts....

*applause*

Q.
Quest 發表於 2012-5-28 16:19

哈哈~ 我都只是有話直說而已~

imvitasoy

這篇文章寫得非常好，謝謝分享~!  在下開始對姊姊的世界有點好奇了。

你是說得沒錯的，在下是真的見過的。在上海見過一些高檔專業情人，開寶馬奔馳的那種，廿歲出頭，不一定美豔，但肯定儀容整潔，談吐得體，不少還彈得一手好鋼琴。最令在下難忘者，是飯後一句"謝謝" , 竟然可以說得誠摯由衷。

家陣一般的宅女，請佢食飯好似老馮，飯後含住牙簽,  篤iphone.....
話時話，在下到現在，仍未知道"鬥地主 “ 是甚麼東東。

ayako

你說的 "專業情人", 是否專門負責陪客那些...? 是否正當職業? sorry 唔係好get 到... @@"
"鬥地主", 我也不太清楚那是甚麼.... 只知是個遊戲囉....
我其實係80後~ 唔知算係姐姐定妹妹呢~ 哈哈~
不過, 大概我的世界跟一般港女有點不一樣吧,
要不然, 也不會一個人飛來這邊追夢~
因為我是傻的~  哇哈哈~~~~~

imvitasoy

顧名思義，有償援交是也。

ayako

oic.................. 原來如此...

szasz

i've heard of a few places in HK such as 牛棚 ＆ 伙炭 （Fotanian） since you've mentioned you are interested in 創意工業 or 創意產業. i myself have been in Canada for a bit 2 long ＆ lost touch with the HK art scene ... plus my personality defect eg 不思進取 etc I know what some artists don't need is: criticism. but so far you've been dealing with it really well. I admired you ... the social skill of yours ... i dunno ... do you find it in conflict in any ways when pursuing your artistic goals ... (again self-reflective statement) Free writing was sth I had to do in school b4. intensive writing in my case (and still turned out as nothing if not destructive) And ... the impression I've been getting from your work so far ... is somewhere in between ... absolute free writing & ... i dunno i am really not in a position to judge. plus i don't wanna get into somebody's mind when s/he is writing like this. Gotta go and take care of my own life first. p.s. again i wouldn't wanna make any assumption of who you really are, male or female.

... i said: take care of my own life, right ???
not take my own life. right ... already ... chao

szasz

plus both you & imvitasoy ... are really ... hardcore

imvitasoy

拒絕學/睇英文好多年。
今日下午，兒子"強逼"在下學一個英文字  ： irrelevant fallacy.  
本來唔明，而家明哂。